Overall, I loved the book. I think it was a great way to end the series, and there is a definite ending with JKR throwing in the epilogue, so people won't be asking "please write a book 8!!!" There are several questions that I don't feel were answered, or things I still wonder (but if she were to answer everyone's questions and what people wondered, she'd have to write Harry's entire life out).
Dudley was a RIOT at the beginning of the book! I loved that part lol!
Harry has Lily's eyes, but I don't see anywhere as to that being explained why it's so important?
I think also that Draco ended up with Pansy. That was the first girl I thought of too.
I'm sad that Hedwig died, but I can't picture Hedwig hanging out with Harry through the book. Although she could have stayed with the Weasley's! I think JKR killed Hedwig for the somewhat of same reason that she had Harry break up with Ginny. Voldemort would have been able to find Harry if he'd seen Hedwig anywhere.
I knew JKR wasn't going to kill Hermione or Ron, she'd said somewhere a while ago that she wouldn't be able to kill Hermione, that she was too much like herself, and that Harry needed his best friend Ron. I just wish I could remember where or when she said that, since no one else seems to remember what I'm talking about.
Of all the deaths, Hedwig's upset me the most, then Dobby's the next. I had to try hard not to show emotion when reading the book, since my hubby has only just started it, but I wanted to cry when those two died.
I was disapointed about the epilogue too. Whatever happened to the Dursleys and Hermione's parents? I did enjoy the background on why "Tuney" hated Hogwarts so much, from Snape's memories.
Harry dying and coming back didn't really surprise me... (maybe that's because in the Stargate tv shows the people do that all the time lol!), I figured at first it was because he had 2 souls in him, so only one was killed, not his body. Although the master of death makes more sense.
I was wondering about jobs too, that's frustrating. Since Harry, Ron, and Hermione didn't finish school, were they able to get jobs that require NEWTS? Like Harry wanting to be an Auror?
I thought that the tiara Fleur wore would be the diadem they were looking for too.
Draco being the owner of the Elder wand makes sense, since he disarmed Dumbledore. If Dumbledore had picked up his wand after Draco disarmed him, then Draco wouldn't have become the master. But Dumbledore never touched his wand again (alive), so Draco rightfully won the wand.
I thought that while Lupin and Tonks dying was a surprise and awful, after I thought about it, it kind of made sense. Harry's parents both died, while not the same way, I think JKR was tying in a lot of similarities between Harry's family and Lupin's baby's family. (Harry mentioned a few times that he was acting like Sirius did as a Godfather.) I'm guessing also that Teddy is living with his grandmother? Since Lupin/Tonks, and Tonks' dad are all dead?
Overall I thought it was a good ending to the series though. With soooo much content, the book couldn't possibly be expected to make everyone 100% satisfied.