Jumping in here, aren't you all happy
Anyway, from what I understand the Chia pet thing is true, Neo was sued for using a copyright or trademarked name. Maybe they have to pay that company x amount of $ to use the name. And Macy Grey at least threatened to sue, I don't know if she did or not. But that pet became the Kau. I don't know if any arrangement/permission was given (or needed) for the usul.
There was a case of a US serviceman who met a girl on the neoboards, they then started talking via IM and he somehow convinced her to meet him and he took her out of the country - this happened I believe in England and he was caught with her in France?
There are predators out there, no question. Parents DO need to be aware of what their children are doing. Use the parental internet controls. Ask what sites they're going to, who they're talking to, impress the importance of never giving out any information - name, address, email, im, etc. No one needs to know that and no one should know that information. If possible, block children from using any sort of IM. I don't know if there is a way, but there should be if there isn't. I'd also remove, if they have one, a webcam. Sound harsh? Maybe, but there are people out there that can make the worst horror movie you've ever seen look like a happy, innocent cartoon.
That said, first of all the boards may get dicey, agreed, but first of all the monitors do really try, they don't have an easy job and there probably aren't enough of them for some of the nonsense that goes on. I have seen some truly vile posts, most are cleared pretty quickly really.
I don't think, legally, that they could have volunteer monitors. Not at this point. At the beginning of the site they did have volunteers, yes. But I think there was something about this, that it's a state law once you start paying employees or you become a for-profit site you can't use volunteers. Something like that. I just know they can't have volunteers anymore. I'm a mod on an image host forum, it's small, we all volunteer and the host site is a free one. I've already been told if they get to the point of being a "real" business, they'll have to start hiring within the state for mods.
Second, too many people on the site put their full name, a physical description, where they go to school, their email, their IM, their glophone (I hate that thing - I've heard too many stories about it), and even pictures of themselves on their lookups, pet pages, siggys or just post giving out information about themselves to just anyone.
So, this man may have been on the site, then again, he may not have been. Maybe, considering what was found in his home, he did a little research, found out about Neo, signed up and either posted on a board one of those awful messages asking for email/im and certain people with webcams, or he may have just sat, watched and waited for someone to post with their info. From there, email or IM conversations. Neopets, I don't think, should have any responsibility for what goes on outside of their site.
This has been a bit of bone of contention with me because people in, say, an rs im chat will get into an argument, one of the parties comes on the site and tells all their friends and the other person's mass reported and frozen - for something that happened off the site. That doesn't seem right to me.
So, if this woman decides to try to sue for her child going off with this man, I don't know if she has a real case. That is something only a lawyer can decide based on what they're told, what evidence that points directly at TNT, etc. Who should be sued? The man who did this. I know, you can't pay from jail and he should definitely go to jail. But his home, car, etc., whatever he owns should be sold and the proceeds to go the boy to help him deal with this. And the mother, I think, needs a course on internet safety at the very least.
Did anything happen to this child? Or did the boy have enough sense to feel that something just wasn't right and take off. I know, no matter what, this boy will more than likely need to talk to someone (professional) for awhile - that's assuming nothing bad did happen.
Morningstar, your daughter will have to be careful if she's doing an anime search. hentai is not allowed on Neo (as alot of things aren't but people try to pull - they need to be banned from the computer, not just Neo), but that form of "anime" and "manga" is all over the place. I've run into it and been shocked by some of the things I've seen, and I'm 49!