Just a reminder for people ... on proper use of the V-day Cards.
There are 4 cases.
1) Both people already have the sidebar.
When you send the card to them ... nothing happens. They just receive the card in their inventory.
2) The sender already has the sidebar, but the receiver doesn't have it.
Again ... the receiver will *not* get the sidebar. They will just receive the card in their inventory.
3) The receiver already has the sidebar, but the sender doesn't have it.
In this case ... the sender *will* get the sidebar ... the card never shows up at the receiver ... and the card goes poof and disappears. This is not the general way you should go about getting the sidebar.
4) Neither the sender nor the receiver have the sidebar.
Best case scenario. In this situation ... *both* the sender and the receiver will end up with the sidebar. The card goes poof.
Just a helpful hint to help you maximize your sidebarness.