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For those who said that we are wrong to protect children from loss, get over it. I'm very glad your parents have protected you from the losses that you might have otherwise suffered at a young kid, otherwise, you wouldn't say anything about my desire to protect my own offspring from something that's just a game..
You can't protect kids. I can understand that if you knew there was a murderer outside your door, you wouldn't let him go out to play, but this isn't like that. It's a game, and that worst that can happen is that they'll be be frozen. But they'll learn. What doesn't kill you makes your stronger. I lost an ccount with 1.5 million (which
was a lot for me at the time) and I didn't cry. I looked at the login page and said, "Oh, crap."
And that's it. I have a seven year old sister, and the only reason I keep her away from neopets (other than that we would have to share a computer) is because she's seven, and she has no common sense. She'd be posting chain letters and giving away her password. On the other hand, I have a cousin who is only two weeks younger than she is, and I wouldn't care if he played. First of all, I wouldn't have to share a computer with him, and second of all, I know he's not gullible enough to fall for every scam. He would most likely be the one scamming.
Maybe your kid's not 'strong' enough to deal with a such a big loss, but that's up to you to decide, isn't it? At some point they're going to experience pain. They're going to be made fun of, they'll be dumped, lots of other things (like losing a family member) are going to cause them pain. If we don't let them out, they won't
learn.
As for losing all the time you spent on something if you get frozen: Simply don't waste your time with it. You don't want your kids to play neo because they'll be sad and bitter if they get frozen? Well, maybe you shouldn't play either, since a lot of older 'reasonable' people do get upset, too. You may have wasted two weeks getting a royal paintbrush, so instead of complaining about losing your valuable time, don't waste it again. That's like burning your hand in the fireplace, and then putting in your foot.