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13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 11:49 am

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/ne ... 233878.ece

I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10.


UPDATE: He may not be the father after all:

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/ne ... 239272.ece

Alfie, 13, was shockingly revealed as Britain's youngest dad by The Sun last week after Chantelle Steadman gave birth to baby girl Maisie.

But it has emerged today that THREE other local youths are claiming to be the father of the child.


British people are never allowed to criticize the US again.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 1:21 pm

Wow that is insane, it'll be interesting when the DNA test comes out.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 2:53 pm

It's funny how this becomes an international story, but there isn't any worry over 13 year old girls becoming mothers. Hmm.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 3:39 pm

A few months ago my 14 year old neice was given permission to start dating and this story scared the bejeezus out of me. My 25 year old sister just became a first time mom, and the possibility of my neice... holy cow.

I mean, she's only allowed group dates and my bro went with her and her little bf to the movies... but it's still scary.

I think my parents should be proud to raise 5 kids and not one had a child before 21.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 4:54 pm

Somebody set him up with octuplet mom, That'll teach him a thing or two.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 5:28 pm

theonlysaneone wrote:British people are never allowed to criticize the US again.

http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/peo_t ... birth-rate

What? Debra Lafave? What?

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 5:55 pm

Skynetmain wrote:
theonlysaneone wrote:British people are never allowed to criticize the US again.

http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/peo_t ... birth-rate

What? Debra Lafave? What?

Yeah, but if you look at the overall fertility rates, the U.S. is also higher (the U.K. is not even at replacement rate) -- so we're just overall more fertile. Or more reproductive? *not meant to be taken seriously*

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 9:20 pm

theonlysaneone wrote:British people are never allowed to criticize the US again.

One idiot thirteen year old kid from Eastbourne doesn't represent the whole of Britain, you know. :roll: Recently, we only seem to get bad press, people yelling "Broken Britain" and such, but it's 'cause really, in the news, all you see IS bad press.

It'll sure be interesting once the DNA test is done. Imagine the uproar that it'd cause if it was one of the other three. :o

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Wed Feb 18, 2009 11:13 pm

All this talk about 'broken' Britain is rubbish. NZ, Australia, the US every country in the world has examples of under 15s fathering children. And in any case, it's biological. When animals can reproduce, reproduce they do. I'm not saying that a 13-15 year old can make a decent parent (which sometimes they can), but this outrage at it being somehow inherantly wrong seems a little weird to me. The fact that people in western countries don't reproduce often until their 30s, and then complain of fertility problems seems just as weird. When humans became humans we were lucky to have a life expectancy of 30!

Also, stop trolling.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Thu Feb 19, 2009 3:54 am

Skynetmain wrote:
theonlysaneone wrote:British people are never allowed to criticize the US again.

http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/peo_t ... birth-rate

What? Debra Lafave? What?

It's not a question of England or the US, it's a problem with English-speakers.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Thu Feb 19, 2009 3:55 am

Regan wrote:It's funny how this becomes an international story, but there isn't any worry over 13 year old girls becoming mothers. Hmm.


I laughed out loud. Which must mean i'm totally evil.

I would like to remind folks not to turn this into a debate, or I will toss it to the debate abyss.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Thu Feb 19, 2009 6:26 am

Did they check his birth certificate for age verification?
He does not look thirteen to me.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Thu Feb 19, 2009 6:57 am

These kids need to be on Maury.

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Thu Feb 19, 2009 7:54 am

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/ho ... 25958.html

Mrs Justice Baron said Alfie Patten must be allowed to return to a normal life after a week of media intrusion and speculation about the paternity of baby Maisie. She granted an application to restrict all further reporting in the case of Alfie, Maisie and his supposed girlfriend, Chantelle Steadman, 15.

The story broke on the front page of The Sun last Friday with a baby-faced Alfie pictured beside the newborn girl, under the headline “Dad at 13”. The boy is expected to take a DNA test next week to determine whether or not he is the baby’s father, but the result of this test cannot be reported.

Following a hearing in private, a statement was read out to reporters explaining the judge’s reasons for making the order. It said that one of the reasons was “because of the birth of Maisie to a mother of only 15 and a putative father who was 13 at the time of the child’s birth and 12 at the time of the alleged conception”. And “because of allegations by at least two others that they may be the putative father of Maisie.” The statement added: “As a result of press intrusion, of which the court has received information, the private and family life of the mother and her baby has been disrupted to such an extent that the judge was concerned about the mother and baby being unable to live a normal family life.”

The judge ruled that the rights of the children involved under Article 8 of the European Convention on Human Rights – to a private and family life – took precedence over the Article 10 rights of the press to freedom of expression. But Max Clifford, who is acting as Alfie’s agent, told The Independent yesterday: “The most important thing is obviously the welfare of the children involved. The problem is it’s too late … Controlling the media is one thing but these people are now household names. The boy involved is supposed to be anonymous as of today, but he must be the most famous anonymous 13-year-old in the world.”

Since the story emerged, a feeding frenzy has erupted around the Patten family home in Hailsham, East Sussex.

Charles Hendry, the local Tory MP, wrote to the Press Complaints Commission (PCC) to voice his concern over media intrusion into the lives of the alleged teenage parents. On Monday night, Sir Christopher Meyer, the chairman of the PCC, announced an inquiry into whether payments by The Sun and The People broke the PCC code in relation to the treatment of minors.


Way to ruin all of the fun, courts :/

Re: 13 year old boy becomes father

Thu Feb 19, 2009 8:13 am

So... no reality show?
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