The second. It gets really annoying when people keep calling... assuming that's what you mean.
What's worse? 'Being poisoned by potassium pills, having a heart attack, dying, humiliated at your funeral by being manhandled by your wife to put on another tie, buried and dug up again for an autopsy, released and buried by your wife in an isolate place where you decompose with strangers, and to top all of that, your wife threw the wedding ring in and engaged with your murderer' or 'knocked out by a blender, strangled to death and buried in a bag by your murderer, discovered, cremated, and spread over a lake, your neighbour and her lawn'?
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